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Valuing Hidden Differences

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Focusing on discourging generalisations.

Background

A person with hidden differences can be easily misinterpreted due to the difficulties they live which are not visually obvious. This can lead to a situations when a person with difficulties can be wrongly judged and categorised. 

This project explores examples of sweeping generalisations which affect a person with differences to be valued and be fully understood

Examples

Here is some examples to consider.


intelligence
One of the greater misconceptions is wrongly categorising hidden differences lower than the intelligence levels they have. There can be a a lack of acceptance for some person with differences to display certain level of intelligence.


This can lead to inaccurate generalisations and presumptions. For example, a business owner made a presumption when communicating with the project director that every autistic person's place would be related to locations which general learning disability would attend during the day. This kind of offensive comment was made regardless of a person's intelligence level or how independent they are.


Some people can use a person's difficulty to automatically not take them seriously at face value. Also, when a person with differences is communicating they can be wrongly accused of being deluded and then insult their level of intelligence with disrespectful language such as lacking perspective. Usually, the accuser lacked any ground-level insight & context.

There are some ignorance and extreme attitudes when a person's difficulties are detected by others against any expectation of abilities & skills. Sadly, some people use this to make offensive and insulting attitudes, including stupid, foolish and even worse languages.


Mental Health
When accessing specific services a person's hidden differences can be wrongly categorised as mental health or a personality disorder. This can mean they can be wrongly abused against their dignity, human rights and their liberties. This affects hidden differences when different public services. For example, over medication has occurred which damaged a person's level of intelligence and life.

Despite a person with differences can experience mental health challenges, they can be wrongly underestimated and can be shunned for lacking toughness.


Find out more on the project "Don't Underestimate Hidden Differences & Mental Health.

Ambition & extensive knowledge
Through education and interest following something specific, a person with differences can have an extensive level of intelligence. Also using their strengths and positive attributes can also be ambitious related to career, hobby and even starting a business. However, some attitudes would undermine any positivity of a person with differences and would do this to discriminate against them to damage any levels of accomplishments. Sadly some contacts of a person with differences have done this to make them patricularlly do this make them fall in line to others with similar difficulties or as a way of competition.

Stigma
There is one kind of generalisation that intends to cause harm towards a person with hidden differences place in society is when prejudice individuals or groups cause delibrate stigma towards a person with differences when being seen at inclusive environments. This is usually made by others being over perceptive.

This is done in a variety of ways.


1. Materialistic rejection
Many people can use perceptions and generalisations to reject and alienate a person with differences from opportunities for expanding social contacts, new social surroundings and to gain a relationship

2. Suspicion
Some people with hidden differences can face an additional layer of stigma and can be judged automatically suspicion or a threat. Especially those living with Autism & ADHD. This is due to a small minority of individuals living with hidden differences committing criminal offences. However, the majority of people living with differences are more likely to become a victim than a perpetrator.

3. Mistaken identity
Through lazy gossiping and innuendo, some people with differences can face stigmatizing labels against how they perceive. This kind of stigma can become widesread unless the matter is noticed and challenged at an early stage.

4. Intolerance against their Identity
A person with differences can be wrongly exploited, misguided & manipulated as a way of indirectly punishing them for the difficulties they live with. This can also can happen when a person with differences is exercising their dignity and when seen in inclusive environments.

5. Mistreatments
Accessing any services a person with differences can face a subtle kind of abuse including oppression, overruling. Due to the other person or someone who is providing a service for a person with differences. They would disapproves of a person with differences being articulate or displaying a certain level of intelligence.

6. Language
Many experts, professional organisations and services may have a sufficient amount of research, education and training related to hidden differences. However, without context and insight, they can communicate inappropriately when communicating about the range of difficulties a person lives with. This can cause a damaging effect on a person with differences in self-worth.

Inappropriate language is also used how a person's difficulty effects expected skills & abilities which many people take for granted. This is also used against a variety of difficulties including memory, following tasks, social skills or physical appearance.

Main Point

The person hidden differences is not a personality or a choice of character or behaviour. They have a limitation of abilities and coping mechanisms. Therefore, it is not acceptable to make disrespectful judgements including a form of parenting challenges, laziness or discipline issues.


Tips and guidance

There are some steps which everyone can make to value a person with hidden differences



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  • Tips for the General Public

    Unless you understand a person's difficulty  then you must not draw attention to them or offend them, when you have observed their presence.


    If you have noticed a person with differences are being discriminated against. Don't turn a blind eye, display some support. Also to inform and encourage others nearby to disprove their prejudiced attitudes.


  • Tips for general and personal contacts with hidden differences

    You should never take advantage of a person with differences when exercise their dignity and human rights by pressurising, speaking over them or provoking hostile arguments. If this has occurred then you are the one to blame them for the upset you have caused. You are accountable for abusing you cause and bringing a worse at them for the wrong reasons.


    There will be occasions when a person will be with differences will speak up on something they are concerned with either something suspicious or something is not right. They do have a right to communicate in this way and you'll have no right to suppress them and make a perceptive disrespect against their identity. If you are doing this you are insulting their level of intelligence.


    Never use your frustrations to overload a person with differences when communicating or to interrogate in a tone which make them feel that have to justify themselves. If they have explained to you the situation then can you must stop that type of communication.


    If you have created this kind of communication and of caused them emotional distress or upset the matter will be your fault and not them. If you have then sent messaging or further phone calls by communicating in the hostility matter then you are being not only abusive but you using their difficulties as a way of punishing them for a situation you caused.


  • Tips for Hidden Differences

    Advice for young people and adults with Autism, ADHD, Dyslexia, Dyspraxia and Social Anxiety


    You may be self-aware and articulate intelligent and intended to be respectful to others does not mean you won't be treated badly for the wrong reasons.


    You need to be aware that your dignity and your ability to speak up can lead to being wrongly abused, oppressed, provoked to cause you  emotionaly upset and despair. 


    So you need to be prepared for potential scenarios where you sometimes will be challenged at short notice against your ability levels or be challenged or a previous occasions which are not likely to remember. Also, you can be challenged and face abuse and intimidation when you are exercising your dignity with other person think you are not entitled to.


    You need to be prepared to take many procedures if your dignity and assertiveness haven't been effective to prevent further mistreatment or oppression you have faced.


    If you haven't prepared for a situation when you are provoked upset, not only you'll be at blame. You can lose creditability for any behaviour you have been provoked. 


    Be careful when and how you disclose your difficulties to others, you can be categorised as less intelligent therefore can be wrongly misjudged.


Final Point

Avoid making generalisation towards a person with hidden differences

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