Background Information
Without anyone noticing it, there can be a conflict of expectations while not considering the realistic aspects.
This expectation is made if some factors, some is about thinking abilities, skills or achieve focus actions such as learn to cook certain meals or to raise standards of appearance. It could also be multiple if thinking considerations and ready to respond during major events such as weddings, Christmas or moving home or support a different person they are going through challenging times.
Because of a difference of abilities a person with hidden differences have, they to approach or manage many things & situations differently. Some have their system including to use pocket-size notepads or develop a strategy or to do complicated tasks by note-taking by using their smartphones & tablet devices.
Be aware they could have a different approach to undertake many expectation or standards is not the same as an average person who which is natural or effortless. For people with invisible differences, it can be mentally intense and could only manage situations within smaller bite sizes.
It important that if a person with differences feels pushed beyond the abilities and coping mechanisms limited it could risk dangerous areas such as frustrations, anxiety or be worse.