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including family members, friends the general public and contacts of a neurodivergent (including contacts as work, education, public services and the community)

1. Discourage broad-brush assumptions
Recognise and respect individuals who experience difficulties, and avoid associating them with negative perceptions.
Challenge backhanded assumptions about neurodivergent people and their associated difficulties, particularly those rooted in stereotypes and negative profiling. Neurodivergent individuals have the right to speak out against stigma and against anyone who uses typecasting in ways that not only reinforce harmful stereotypes but also compromise their circumstances and wellbeing.
2. Background on Variations of Difficulties
Some neurodivergent people, particularly those living with autism or dyspraxia, may face challenges related to social presentation or physical coordination. Despite their efforts to adapt and adjust, they may still encounter stigmatising assumptions.
Such stigma can discourage individuals from disclosing their difficulties. When their differences are noticed but not properly understood, they may face unfair judgement, disrespect towards their character and integrity, and negative assumptions about their intentions.
This can result in being singled out for appearing “different”, ridiculed, ranked, threatened, attacked, or made to feel constantly under suspicion. Some may be treated as though they are automatically untrustworthy within society.
Some People living with autism, including Asperger’s syndrome, are often subjected to degrading labels, which draw unnecessary attention to perceived differences. These stigmatising attitudes can significantly affect a person’s sense of purpose, belonging and self-worth.
Rather than being overly critical or hyper-aware of differences, we should recognise the effort many neurodivergent individuals make to be self-aware and adaptable. Greater understanding, respect and informed awareness can help create a more inclusive and compassionate society.
3. Respecting Intelligence and Dignity
We must actively recognise and respect each individual’s intelligence, personal agency and inherent dignity. Every person has the right to define their own value, to make their own choices, and to speak in defence of themselves without being undermined or dismissed. This requires a conscious shift away from outdated and stigmatising perceptions.
Neurodivergent individuals, and those with additional difficulties, must not be viewed through a “mental patient” stereotype, or assumed to lack intelligence and many other examples. Equally, they should not be cast as helpless victims without autonomy or capability.
Discourage any inappoprate mistratment
Using someone’s difficulty as a reason to silence them (treating them as though they should be “seen and not heard”, or adopting patronising attitudes such as “speak when you’re spoken to”) is both disrespectful and harmful. Such behaviour diminishes confidence, reinforces inequality, and disregards their right to participate fully and equally in conversations and decisions that affect them.
Respect also means recognising and honouring personal boundaries. Every individual has limits regarding how they expect to be treated, and those boundaries must be acknowledged without challenge or ridicule.
Conclusion
Creating a culture of genuine respect involves listening, valuing contribution, and engaging with people as capable individuals rather than through the lens of stereotype or assumption.
Useful Links
Positive Value
A starting point to value and embrace hidden differences
Smarter Understanding
Special information page on challenging understanding conventionals and the project director's developments
Elements of Value
The information and visual art project when explore the five elements towards high aspirations for hidden differences
Diverse Achievers
A bitesize information project to celebrate achievers and role models with hidden differences.
Advantage
Emphasising how hidden differences can be positive benefit to society
Zero Toxic
The information campaign against prejudice, bullying, discrimination and hatred.
Neurodiversity is not a problem to manage, it is a reality to respect.
By replacing stigma with understanding, we create a fairer and stronger society for everyone.
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